Children

If I am not sure about anything in life I am certain of the love that I have for my children. Becoming a mother should had came with a guild book in my opinion, it could be so much easier if there was rules to follow, guidelines to help with certain dilemma. A table of content to allow us to know what chapter we have reached. As well as a glossary to give us a better understanding for certain words or phrases that are used within different chapters. Boy, if only it was that easy but since it isn’t we as mothers have to make it what it is. We as women have to share and give advice to one another.

                Our poor fist born they get the rockiness of our motherhood. We know not where to start or what is wrong from right. Yet within time we get it together. On another note, becoming a mother doesn’t mean that we have to let go of our womanhood, as the world has painted. Life doesn’t stop because we have children, it just alerts us to think twice with the moves we make. We as women are still allowed having “me time” whenever it is needed. This helps to regroup ourselves in full, to relax and think clearly. All mothers have their moments when we are feeling some type of way about their situations. In which some feel thing could have been different. Then we have to snap out of it! Life is life, love it because it’s ours and love whatever comes about within it. It is okay to feel like something else could have been better or to not want to be around at times. These are just a few of the feelings that ALL MOTHERS go through you are not alone and you are allowed these thoughts but as you step back into reality EMBRACE your situation, EXCEPT your life, LOVE your outcome and ENDURE whatever is needed to endure to make you a stronger woman; a better mother and a professional advisor to the next young ladies in your shoes.